lucy watson asked:


Love is everywhere. In fact, flirting tips and dating tips are there to help you out in your dating dilemmas and problems. If you are still single and have not found the perfect person yet, try online dating. Some people have tried it and confessed that it has worked for them. They have met the person they want to share the rest of their life with and found them on the internet. Amazing isn’t it? Back then, people frequented bars and disco clubs because they are looking for dates and partners. But now, the trend has gone online.

What are some flirting tips and dating tips that are tested and true? If you are going to look for an online dating site, be sure that it is recommended and reliable enough. Some sites may give free online dating services but they do not give you the best results. If you choose a paid online dating site or agency, the results and options are worth the pay. In online dating, you will be asked to write or fill out your profile. This will be your stepping-stone to meeting the love of your life.

It does not matter how old you are or what you look like. The thing is to make your profile desirable enough to attract attention. Use your creativity and express yourself. Have fun doing your profile and give a lasting impression. Do not let people think that you are a lonely or a desperate person. Keep in mind, it is being positive and happy about yourself to attract others. Once you have selected the persons you like, try to be patient for a while. Do not rush things and do it little by little.

Before doing meet-ups, know the person first. What is his or her personality? Does he or she have what it takes? Do you like the person? It is best if you think of your own security. Is the person safe enough to go out with? Do not force a person to meet you up immediately. Take things slowly and gradually know the person as time goes by. Let them know that you have good intentions and that you are a patient person. Remember, you are not a hopeless person so do not make things too quick. Meet the person when both of you are ready for the real date. The dating may go a long way if you know how to act well. Chat with them or send emails occasionally if you have time.

Communication is very important but do not overdo it. Some people can get so annoying when they want to talk with you 24/7. Answer questions politely and avoid making harsh conversations. Once you have decided to finally meet-up, it is best if you pick a public place. An amusement park or mall could be a great place to go. Do not go to a location you are not familiar with. You might get lost or you might end up in danger. These are just few of the flirting tips and dating tips you can try for yourself. Finally, look for a dating site that only gives the right services.



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Kimberly Kellish asked:


The true origin of Valentine’s Day may always be in question, but most historians seem to agree on the basic elements. St. Valentine, as he has become known, was a Catholic priest in Rome during the times of Emperor Claudius II. Claudius, who was known in his times as “Claudius the Cruel” had decreed that men were no longer allowed to marry. It was Claudius’s belief that single, men without families were the best soldiers.

Valentine found this law absurd and went against the law, marrying couples in secret. This was soon discovered by Claudius II and Valentine was taken to prison and ordered beheaded. It is said that in his final days in prison, Valentine wrote a letter to his jail keepers daughter who had been visiting him during his imprisonment. He signed the letter, “From your Valentine”. This is what is now thought of as the first Valentine card. St. Valentine is said to have died on February 14th and this is why we celebrate the holiday on this day.

Others say it was in conjunction of the belief in Roman times that birds picked their mates on February 14th. Valentines cards, as we know them today, are said to have been around since the Victorian Era. Originally they were all handmade and decorated with pictures of hearts, flowers, birds and LOTS of lace. Traditionally they were also sent anonymously, even going as far as to go to another town so that they receiver of the card would not know where it was mailed from. Throughout time, romantics throughout the world have had different legends pop up, all basically with the same end result, discovering your future mates identity.

In England many traditions have been practiced. One was a lady was to pin bay leaves to her pillow on the Eve of St. Valentine’s Day. If she did this she was believed to see her future mate in her dreams that night. Another Valentines Day tradition occurred a hundred of years ago; children would dress up as adults and go door to door singing a Valentine song to celebrate the holiday. In Wales, people carve wooden spoons and embellish them with ornate keys, key holes and hearts, this symbolically meaning, “unlock my heart”. These spoons would be given to the valentines as gifts.

 There are numerous legends that have been passed on through generations but here are just a few:

• If a woman sees a Robyn flying over head on Valentines Day she will marry a sailor. If she sees a sparrow, she will marry a poor man, but be happy. If she sees a GoldFinch, she will marry a millionaire.

• The 1st name you hear or read on Valentine’s Day will be the name of your future mate.

• In Great Britain, a woman would write down the names of her sweethearts’ on pieces of paper and attach them to clay balls. She would then drop the balls into water and the first name that surfaced would be her destined future husband.

• From the Middle Ages, women would write their names on pieces of paper and they would be put into a jar. If their name was drawn by an eligible man he would take her paper and pin it on his sleeve for the week and he would be her Valentine. This is where it is believed the phrase; “Wearing one’s heart on his sleeve” comes from.

• In England, if a young women was curious enough, and brave enough, she could summon the appearance of her future spouse by visiting a graveyard at midnight on the Eve of St. Valentines Day and singing a prescribed song while running around a church 12 times

Whether we chose to believe Urban Legends developed around Valentines Day or not, most of us are true romantics at heart. We may not be pinning bay leaves on our pillows, but we all hope to one day find our one true love.



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