lucy watson asked:


Are you naturally a shy person? You do not have to suffer by not getting the dream date you have always wanted. Many shy guys lose their senses when they are finally in front of the girl they wanted to date. This should come to an end. You need to learn more about dating tips for shy guys and much more. They know the best ways to win a woman’s heart and they give the excellent advices on what girls really want in a date.

Grabbing a woman’s attention is not that easy, especially for shy men. But how will you know if you don’t even try, right? Well, although shyness is natural to some people, it should not hinder you from getting the woman you want to date. Overcoming shyness may take time but there are definitely effective ways to get rid of this kind of personality. And to tell you the truth, some girls really get turned off when they know that the guy they are dating is too shy to talk to her.

When you are having this dilemma too, then it is time that you talk more often and practice speaking and socializing to a lot of people. In this way, you will be able to express yourself more often. Practice speaking with body language. Ladies easily notice guys who are nervous and shy around them, that is why you should feel comfortable in front of them.

How can you start building that self-confidence? First, look at your posture. Do you look people in the eye when you are talking to them? If not, then you should make it a habit to have eye contact with the person you are talking to. Besides, it would be a sign of respect and enthusiasm. Some girls really get pissed off when they are talking to a man who don’t look at them straight in the eye. But too much of something is bad enough so maintain distance and keep the eye contact at enough levels.

Next, look at the way you walk. Do you walk with your eyes on the road or at eye level? Do you have the habit of looking downwards while walking? This is one of the things you should avoid. Just look at a good distance without staring too much at persons or things. Walk straight with a maintained, good posture.

Next thing you should master is on how to make a good conversation. Some guys may be too aggressive. Being too pushy is a great turn off too. Show respect and interest to the woman you are dating. Do not take her to places that are too dangerous or dark.

Either way, do not bring her to very crowded and noisy places such as the bar or disco club. If you are not frequent in these kinds of places, then your date should not, too. Crowded and noisy places may just devastate your romantic date and night together. Keep in mind, there are a lot of worthy places to go to. How about going to a nice park or a highly recommended restaurant near you? Women love special treatment and fine dining so having her to eat in a fancy restaurant can win her heart. Remember, be a gentleman at all times. Girls love to be pampered and they cannot resist sweet men. 

If you are still yearning for more tips, then just visit the online dating tips. They have the latest and best tips to win the heart of the girl even if you have that shyness factor.



Online Dating

Groshan Fabiola asked:


Above everything else, the Internet provides people with an excellent and unparalleled opportunity to communicate. Everyone knows how it only takes a few clicks of the mouse to join people from any corner of the world or from any background in an online conversation or flirt online. Many people see this flirt online as an excellent opportunity to find hot women or men, whilst not revealing too much about themselves. You can flirt online and stay anonymous. You can pretend to be anyone you want or just be yourself- it really makes no difference, as flirting online can be a very pleasant and self-fulfilling experience. Flirt chats are become increasing popular, because many people are interested in flirting with other people without having to go to too much trouble, like going on a date or attending certain events in hopes of meeting someone. Furthermore, flirt chats are more and more popular because people don’t have to worry about how the other person sees or judges them.

Some people argue that flirting online lacks one of the most exciting aspects of flirting, namely eye contact. Others feel that there is a certain sense of frustration that derives from not being able to know who the other person really is and if he/she is really what he/she claims to be. But when you flirt online for fun, do these aspects really matter? After all, you too have the chance to assume any kind of personality you want, so the question of sincerity should not be raised here. In fact, most of us have the tendency to exaggerate even a little bit when they flirt online, which is understandable, given the fact that we all have something in our physical appearance or personality that we don’t like very much. As far as the eye contact part goes, if you use your imagination, online flirting can be as real as flirting in the real world, or even more exciting. If you are a shy person, online flirting is a very good start for you, as well as an excellent opportunity to build up confidence in yourself and learn how to approach a person that you are interested in. When you flirt online you are more relaxed because the other person cannot see you and judge your appearance, gestures and reactions. Moreover, not being under the pressure of having to make a good first impression means that you can really be yourself and show your qualities. It is a lot of fun to flirt online because you have many choices, which undoubtedly makes you feel free. You can flirt online as much as you like, without any fear of being rejected. You can change your flirt partner any time you want to, without bothering anyone.

Flirt chats are also a very good place to find hot women. Men have always wanted to flirt with hot women, and these chat rooms are the ideal place to look for them. As long as you don’t give much thought to how sincere they are about their appearance and use your imagination, you can flirt with a lot of hot women online. When it comes to hot women on flirt chats, the saying ‘there are many fish in the sea’ is an understatement.

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Dating Speed

Marty Tousley asked:


Copyright (c) 2008 Marty Tousley

We’ve barely made it through the holidays of December and January, and now the stores are filled with hearts and flowers and candy, all of it in celebration of the gift of love. But February 14 can be a difficult day for those of us who are grieving, and for some it will be the first Valentine’s Day since our precious Valentine died. For us there is no celebration; there is only grief.

Sometimes, for fear of “letting go,” we may find ourselves “holding on” to our pain as a way of remembering those we love. Letting go of what used to be is not an act of disloyalty, and it does not mean forgetting our loved ones who have died. Letting go means leaving behind the sorrow and pain of grief and choosing to go on, taking with us only those memories and experiences that enhance our ability to grow and expand our capacity for happiness.

If our memories are painful and unpleasant, they can be hurtful and destructive. If they create longing and hold us to the past, they can interfere with our willingness to move forward in our grief journey. But it doesn’t have to be that way. We can choose which parts of life we shared that we wish to keep and which parts we wish to leave behind. We can soothe our pain by thinking of happy as well as sad memories. The happiness we experienced with our loved ones belongs to us forever.

If we decide to do so, we can choose to embrace Valentine’s Day as a special day on which to commemorate our loved ones and to celebrate our love for them. Death ends a life, but it does not end the relationship we have with our loved ones who have died. The bonds of love are never severed by death, and the love we shared will never die either. For Valentine’s Day this year, we can find a way to honor our loved ones, to remember them and to show them that our love is eternal.

We can build a piece of “memory time” into that particular day, or we can pack the entire day with meaning. Think of it this way: It’s much easier to cope with memories we’ve chosen than to have them take us by surprise. Whether we are facing Valentine’s Day, Mother’s Day, Father’s Day, Memorial Day, an anniversary or birthday, or any other special day of our own choosing, we can immerse ourselves in the healing power of remembrance. We can go to a special place, read aloud, or listen to a favorite song. We can celebrate what once was and is no more.

Personal grief rituals are those loving activities that help us remember our loved ones, and give us a sense of connectedness, healing and peace. Creating and practicing personal grief rituals can also help us release painful situations and unpleasant memories, freeing us to make our memories a positive influence in our lives.

What follows are just a few examples of personal grief rituals. The ideas are as unique and as varied as the people who invented them; think of ways that you can adapt them and make them your own. You are limited only by your own imagination.

* If you’re a writer, write. It could be an article, an anecdote, a story, a poem, a song, a letter, an obituary or a eulogy. If you don’t want to write for someone else, keep a private journal and write about your feelings as you journey through your grief.

* Buy a very special candle, decorate it and light it in honor of your loved one.

* Purchase a book - perhaps a children’s book - on coping with the loss of a loved one, and donate it to your local library or school. Ask the librarian to place a label inside the front cover inscribed “In memory of [your loved one's name].”

* Plant a tree, bush, shrub, garden or flower bed as a permanent growing memorial to your beloved. Mark the site with a memorial plaque, marker, bench or statue.

* Memorialize your beloved in cyberspace by lighting a virtual candle online.

* Write a special note, letter, poem, wish or prayer to your beloved, go outside, attach the paper to a balloon and let it go - or place it in a vessel and burn it, and watch the smoke rise heavenward.

* If you are harboring bad feelings or regrets, gather symbols to represent those hurtful or painful situations, events, or feelings from your past, place them in a container and hold a private burial or burning ceremony, saying goodbye and releasing them as you do so.

* Ask relatives, friends, co-workers and neighbors to gather their contributions, and put together a scrapbook or box of memories containing mementoes, letters and photographs of your loved one.

* Celebrate the life of your loved one by continuing favorite traditions or eating favorite foods.

* Select a Valentine card that you wish your beloved would have picked for you, and mail it to yourself.

* Give yourself a gift from your loved one that you always wished he or she would have given you, and think of your beloved whenever you use it or wear it.



Dating Speed